Painting is just another way of keeping a diary.
~ Pablo Picasso
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On this day
December 6thIntentional with Chris Garay
Intentional – with Chris Garay
What is the role of discipline in shaping personal practices and fostering a sense of community within movement-based activities?
Chris Garay joins Craig to discuss balancing varied practices, and how much discipline is actually required for intentional growth.
The conversation revolves around their shared interest in fitness, as they discuss aspects of physical training, the significance of community in fitness spaces, and the challenges of prioritizing various physical practices effectively.
When we show up, we know that [we’re trying] to get better at something via practicing intentionally. But yeah, if it’s not fun, you’re probably not going to stick around and keep going. And that even— honestly, goes back to the discipline [and] willpower. If you constantly have to overcome something just to to start, then you probably won’t start. So if it’s enjoyable and there’s momentum there, that can be very helpful over time.
~ Chris Garay 30:47
Chris and Craig emphasize the need for a balance between discipline and enjoyment in fitness routines. They explore the concept of a gym as a community space, highlighting the value of shared language and camaraderie in training environments. Additionally, they value trying diverse physical practices, but acknowledge the challenge of balancing multiple interests without compromising progress in any one discipline.
Takeaways
Importance of Intentional Practice — the significance of intentional, deep practice in fitness, aiming for progress through focused training rather than scattered efforts across multiple disciplines.
Balancing Discipline and Enjoyment — the necessity of finding a balance between discipline and fun in fitness routines, acknowledging that enjoyable practices lead to more consistent adherence.
Community in Fitness Spaces — the value of a fitness community, where shared language and camaraderie create an environment fostering encouragement, motivation, and a sense of belonging.
Challenges of Multidisciplinary Training — Exploring diverse physical practices poses the challenge of balancing interests while maintaining progress in each discipline, acknowledging the limitations of time and resources for comprehensive development.
Practical Decision-Making — the importance of decisive choices in allocating time and resources, acknowledging that saying no to certain pursuits is crucial for effective focus and progress in chosen areas.
Resources
https://www.physicalitydc.com — Chris Garay’s gym in Washington, DC.
@chrisgaray87 — Chris on Instagram.
(Written with help from Chat-GPT.)
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Cypress Pond
The black water (from tannin from the Cypress roots) does not look inviting. Also present, alligators.
Everything combines
Everything we experience, do, say and think combines with everything. It’s not strictly fractal because it’s not necessarily self-similar. It’s a rolling boil of randomness within which we find meaning. The meaning isn’t everywhere in there. It’s a precious discovery and in searching for it, we develop a scarcity mindset. We build up skills and heuristics for finding and keeping (learning, remembering) that meaning. Things get simplified so we can hold on to them.
In each case it’s easy to underestimate risk—or at least to be surprised at what happens—because the initial ingredients seem harmless. The idea that two innocent small things can combine to form one big dangerous thing isn’t intuitive.
The same things happens with personality traits.
~ Morgan Housel, from Vicious Traps
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The very powers which enable us to interact with the world and to grapple—with varying degrees of effectiveness—with our own minds, are the ones which cause us to err. Everything combines and we’re always gauging the size of the effects of each combination. How do we keep errors from creeping into our mindset and world view? Or rather, knowing that they are continuously creeping in, how do we attempt to weed them out? Self-reflection.
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A great many troubles
I am an old man, and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened.
~ Mark Twain
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Motivation with Oliver Thorpe
What motivates and shapes the personal experiences and practices of someone who navigates both the parkour and climbing communities?
Exploring mindfulness in movement reveals deeper insights into personal and communal growth.
It’s interesting how it somehow reveals our own thought process. So the exact sequence of my feet in some stride up to something— or the exact way that I place my hands, reveals how I think about movement.
~ Oliver Thorpe (15:07)
The conversation touches on the intersection of culture, movement, and personal growth. Reflections on moving between Denmark and Australia explore themes of adaptation and community, with emphasis on how cultural differences shape human connections. Denmark, with its initially reserved people, becomes a home through its parkour community, providing both camaraderie and a sense of belonging.
The discussion also delves into the relationship between mindfulness, training, and motivation. Experiences in parkour and climbing illustrate how challenges provide motivation and how iterative attempts help in overcoming fear. There is also a reflection on how personal habits, like coffee preparation, tie into broader practices of mindfulness and intentionality.
Takeaways
The role of community in creating a sense of belonging — The parkour community in Denmark plays a key role in fostering personal connections.
The contrast between Danish and Australian cultures — These cultural differences highlight variations in social behavior and interpersonal connections.
The interplay of mindfulness and movement — Training in parkour and climbing reveals how mindfulness shapes approach and execution.
The motivational power of challenges — Facing and overcoming physical and psychological barriers provides a sense of growth.
The iterative nature of overcoming fear — Experiences in climbing show how repeated exposure transforms fear into confidence.
Resources
Gerlev International Gathering — A notable parkour and movement event in Denmark.
Gravity Sucks Jam — A parkour jam mentioned in the context of challenging physical endurance.
Gall Folk High School — A Danish institution with programs, including a focus on parkour.
(Written with help from Chat-GPT.)
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Vision with Pej Onile-Ere
What inspires and shapes the creation and evolution of a vision board project and podcast that focus on personal growth and self-discovery?
The vision board workshop reveals hidden desires and life goals by tapping into creative instincts rather than logical reasoning.
Having the courage to become who you’re created to be is what badass really stands for.
~ Pej Onile-Ere (8:42)
The conversation discusses the transformation of a vision board project into a workshop that helps participants uncover and act on their hidden desires and life goals. It explores the use of creative rather than analytical thinking, and the integration of deep meditation to guide individuals in aligning their priorities with their life’s current phase. The workshop focuses on crafting actionable maps from abstract aspirations, providing clarity and focus.
Another major topic is the intersection of the workshop and the creation of a podcast that emphasizes personal growth and overcoming fear. Pej shares her journey of acquiring domain names inspired by vision boards, leveraging podcasting as a platform for exploring the stories and routines of successful individuals. She reflects on how her podcast and workshop themes of courage and self-discovery align.
Takeaways
Transforming aspirations into action — Vision boards evolve into actionable life maps.
The power of meditative reflection — Creative workshops help unearth hidden goals.
Exploring self-improvement — Courage and overcoming fear are key to personal growth.
The importance of structured learning — Podcasting courses provide clarity and community.
Common struggles in growth journeys — Participants often face self-doubt and distraction.
Integrating multiple mediums — Workshops and podcasts offer complementary pathways to self-discovery.
The role of intuition — Vision boards highlight deeper life desires that may be overlooked.
Finding personal focus — Projects aim to narrow participants’ priorities to one to three key areas.
Resources
Badass Fabulous — Pej’s podcast explores courage and self-discovery through personal stories.
Vision board workshops — Pej’s workshops, named “Discover Your Life Map,” focusing on personal and professional goals.
(Written with help from Chat-GPT.)
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Improvise
The simple willingness to improvise is more vital, in the long run, than research.
~ Rolf Potts
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Clarity
Problem identification is always a sound investment of time, money, and energy. It feels uncomfortable to spend time and resources trying to figure out exactly what the problem is—we want to jump to fixing way too fast. Most of use are plagued with action bias and really struggle to stay in problem identification. I’ve found that getting clear about what’s wrong and why it’s a problem is the best investment you can make at home or work.
~ Brené Brown
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Accountability
Starting on January 3rd, 2022, I’m hosting an accountability session.
https://forum.moversmindset.com/pub/accountability
It’s free. There are no tricks, no gimmicks, and there’s no “upsell” at the end. It’s simply an opportunity to synchronize with others who want to make progress toward some goal of their own choosing.
This session is for kind and generous people who want to get something, (something of their own choosing,) done. But, who feel they need some others to kindly and gently hold them accountable to doing the work. In the session, you’ll be part of a group of people working together.
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A master of deception
That’s what we need to do all the time—all through our lives when things lay claim to our trust—to lay them bare and see how pointless they are, to strip away the legend that encrusts them. Pride is a master of deception: When you think you’re occupied in the weightiest business, that’s when he has you in his spell.
~ Marcus Aurelius
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Creating an administrative day
Once I reached a point where most of the administrative and maintenance things were under control, I found that I had a steady stream of small things to do every day. Certainly, having things organized saves time, but things still need to be done—I can’t organize and optimize everything to zero-time required. The next step was to grab a trick from time-blocking: Set aside a chunk of time to focus on those administrative and maintenance tasks in one long go.
I’m not going to bother you with which day of the week I picked. The point is simply that I have a day—the entire day—set aside to do all the things that must be done. Laundry, occasionally changing the house air filters, stacking firewood, scheduled appointments (if I can get them on that day), banking and bookkeeping, special errands and shopping trips for home repair items, and on and on. The point is that I’ve moved all the things which feel like they aren’t directly related to my goals and aspirations—although obviously they are directly related, they just don’t feel related—to one place; one big block of time; the admin day.
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Plans
Plans get you into things, but you’ve got to work your way out.
~ Will Rogers
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Here We Are
Forty years after the Voyager sailed into space, we seem to have lost sight of this beautiful and sobering perspective, drifting further and further into our divides, fragmenting our fragile home pixel into more and more warring factions, and forgetting that we are bound together by the improbable miracle of life on this Pale Blue Dot and a shared cosmic destiny.
~ Maria Popova from, Here We Are
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Also quoted in this piece is Carl Sagan’s original commentary on the “pale blue dot”. Gets me every time.
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Sunday’s workout report
(Part 7 of 36 in series, 10,000 Reps Project)
long day yesterday, lots of bus riding and walking around nyc, and a short but intense parkour class with lots of arm work. So last night I was sore, tired and exhausted. Slowly warmed up all morning in front of the fire and managed to get outside, warmup and actually get through my workout. My left achilles tendon is sore so it took a lot of moving and warming up to get the bar pre’s feeling good. Probably the cleanest (<< nicest landings, most controlled, most ‘stuck’ landings) set of 70 I’ve ever done. boo-YEAH! It’s a schmeazly small workout in the grand scheme, but it was a MAJOR mental win today. Perfectly on-plan for the past week.
Here’s the coming week…
Monday will be tough; class this afternoon and it’s a back-to-back workout. But I don’t want to delay it to tuesday when I plan to run. So, Monday it is. It will be a delight to lower bar pre’s DOWN to 40 reps. Few more pushups just for round numbers and I’ll start ramping pullups.
Which by the way, pullups are paying off in parkour. I have a little video clip of finger tips on an I beam flange pullup-tuck thing that I discovered I can now do. I happen to recall how inconceivable that move seemed when I saw it years ago.
This week I’ll add 5 pullups. I was doing 8×5, I’ll either to 9×5 or go to some sets of six just to get it done faster. My tentative idea is to add 5 reps every fourth workout… that should be easy since it’s only a 10% addition. I hope :) At that add-on rate, pullups will catch up in mid/late January. I’ll then assess if I can go to 50, 60 or more reps across the board on all the activities. With things at “40s” while I’m catching-up pullups I’m continuing to dig an over-all rep-count hole.
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Parkour and Art du Deplacement
(Part 17 of 37 in series, Study inspired by Pakour & Art du Déplacement by V. Thibault)
Happy Sunday to me!!: …mailman rang the doorbell, on a Sunday?!?
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Love is all you need?
Nothing quite like the Grant Study has ever been attempted; as Vaillant puts it, this research represents “one of the first vantage points the world has ever had on which to stand and look prospectively at a man’s life from eighteen to ninety.” The mountains of data collected over more than seven decades has become a rich trove for examining what factors present in a man’s younger years best predict whether he will be successful and happy into old age. The study’s researchers have continually sifted through the results and reports in an attempt to ferret out these promising elements. As Vaillant details in The Triumphs of Experience, some of the researchers’ original hypotheses did not pan out, and the job of untangling issues of causation and correlation goes on. Yet several insights have emerged very strongly and prominently from the data, offering brightly marked guideposts to a life well lived.
~ Brett McKay from, Love Is All You Need
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Compassion
All cruelty springs from weakness.
~ Seneca
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