Look for the truth; it wants to be found.
~ Blaise Pascal
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Author: Craig Constantine
Photography from Seattle
For several years I’ve been attending the Art of Retreat events in North America. Originally they were held in New York City, but the latest three were held outside of Seattle. I’ve been recording conversations for Art of Retreat’s own podcast over the years. If you’re interested in what goes on behind the scenes, I tried to unpack some of it over on a topic in the Podcaster Community, Field Recordings at Art of Retreat 2022.
I have a habit of trying to capture interesting photos from airplane windows. Often it’s solar or weather phenomenon, but on this trip out to Seattle I was surprised to see these forest fires. Fortunately, they weren’t very close to where the event was held, but “fire fog” was thing during much of the time I spent in Seattle and all of the time at the event.
A few shots from the location where the event was heldâŚ
And one last random shot from a cool, mushroomâinfused coffee spot in Seattle, Wundergrond Coffee.
Random, but fun photos â hope you enjoyed them.
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October 09, 2022 â #1
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I’m triggered, now what?
The more fun your work, the less likely it is to set off these triggers. You wonât struggle to focusâtasks will attract your attention because theyâll be far less tedious, frustrating, challenging, and so on. There are a lot of strategies for overcoming procrastination. But making a project more fun disables a bunch of procrastination triggers at once, while also making your work more enjoyable. Itâs a great strategy.
~ Chris Bailey from, How to stop procrastinating by making your work more fun – Chris Bailey
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Great little article from Bailey with great points about the really common things that trigger procrastination, and some ideas on how to beat each one. What’s been working for me for a while is something inspired by Yoda’s comment that, “named your fear must be, before banish it you can.” I can tell when I’m procrastinating; perhaps not always, but definitely often. At the point of realization, I play the nameâgame: “Craig, what exactly is it that you don’t want to do?” Then like the school guidance counselor always trying to talk me out of sabotaging myself into detention, “Are you sure that’s the thing? Be specific.” Upon realizing I’m still in their office, “I don’t think you’re as sure as you think you are. Can you explain it to me like I’m 5 years old?” Until eventually, it’s so blinding clear what I need to do (or skip, or change, or screw up 3 minutes of courage, or whatever) that I just freaking stomp that procrastination.
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Endless anxieties
When circumstances scare us, our imagination tends to take over, filling our minds with endless anxieties. You need to gain control of your imagination. A Focused mind has no room for anxiety or for the effects of an overactive imagination.
~ Robert Greene
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Go to sleep
In the military they speak of sleep disciplineâmeaning itâs something you have to be good at, you have to be conscious of, something you canât let slip. We only have so much energy for our work, for our relationships, for ourselves. A smart person knows this and guards it carefully. A smart person knows that getting their 7-8 hours of sleep every night does not negatively affect their output, it contributes crucially to their best work.
~ Ryan Holiday from, Here’s Your Secret To Success: Go The F*ck To Sleep – RyanHoliday.net
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Sleep. sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep. Sleep? Sleep!
Know that old trope about if you could go back and tell yourself something, or send yourself a letter? âŚand most peopleâincluding me!âsay something like: No I wouldn’t because I’d not be who I am now without those mistakes! Yeah no ima take that back. Note to past self: Yo! Go the f*<k to sleep.
And maybe⌠just sayin’ spitballin’ here⌠try gettin’ up early if you really want to jump back on whatever it is you think it’s worth staying up for tonight⌠¯\_(ă)_/ÂŻ what do I know.
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Don’t cheat
You only need that lesson once. That wasn’t the standard, and you know what the standard is. Hold the standard. Ask for help. Fix it. Do whatever’s necessary. But don’t cheat.
~ Chris Young
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Rediscovering movement
Play is a big part of our lives as children, but why do we lose our playfulness as we age? I talk a lot about the emotional and physical aspects of play, especially regarding Positive Ageing and aspects of Parkour. So many people feel like play is out of reach as they approach midlife, even though itâs an innate part of you.
~ Julie Angel from, Discovering the power of play in midlife. – Julie Angel PhD
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Angel doesn’t write often, but when she does it’s something nice like this. I just want to say that physical movement and play are inseparableâwithout the former, you’re not really doing the later.
Or, perhaps I just want to say two things; That first thing, and that Angel is the filmâmaker who created my favorite video to share when people ask me, “what is parkour?” Movement of Three.
Actually, I want to share three things: Those two things, and Julie if you’re reading: OMG the cannoli!
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The way
The way to true knowledge does not go through soft grass covered with flowers. To find it, a person must climb steep mountains.
~ John Ruskin
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Microstructures
We are well aware that structures such as buildings and organizational policies and operating processes support and constrain our activities. We tend to be much less conscious of smaller structures that influence our interactions with other people. In contrast to more tangible macrostructures, we call them microstructures. You have no choice. Every time you have a conversation or a meeting you are using microstructures.
~ Keith McCandless from, Liberating Structures – Microstructures & Design Elements
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Once you see the solutions, you can’t unsee them. Youâlike meâprobably think you do a good job of engaging other people. But there’s a great explanation in this little introductory article. It listed off all the ways⌠ways for which I was congratulating myself knowing⌠in which the microstructures we use today fail. And then it goes on (in brief in the article and at length through that web site, and a book) to show some beautiful ways to create and use structures which liberate us. That’s rather nice.
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You had me at “tree”
âA tree is a little bit of the future,â Wangari Maathai reflected as she set out to plant the million trees that won her the Nobel Peace Prize. But a tree is also an enchanted portal to the past â a fractal reach beyond living memory, beyond our human histories, into the âsaeculumâ of time.
~ Maria Popova from, How to Face the Years with Confidence: The Mystery of the Worldâs Most Majestic Tree â The Marginalian
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I recently flew from Philadelphia to Seattle. At one point in the journey I gazed down at the Cascade Mountains from the miraculous perch of technology that is an airliner, staring silently at countless trees in countless valleys.
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Ken Burns
It seems absurd to ask, but who was Benjamin Franklin, really? The American founderâs legacy is at once ubiquitous and somehow elusive. He was never president, nor a cabinet secretaryâheâs not even name-checked in Hamilton. Surveying his various careers as a scientist, inventor, writer, publisher, and diplomat, one could be forgiven for not properly engaging with any of them. Call it the curse of the polymath.
~ Matthew Taub from, Ken Burns on His Obsession With Ben Franklin, and Admiration for Guy Fieri – Atlas Obscura
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The Curse of the Polymath sounds like a classic film. The sort with a 15âminute overture, and an actual intermission. I’ve not yet watched the whole film, but I’m definitely past the intermission.
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Motivational interviewing
What if we could navigate these conversations in a way to help others change for their benefit? What if we could do this in a way that wasnât a gimmick or coerced, but completely supportive and encouraging? Knowing that it is possible to have conversations that spark change and assist people to feel motivated and empowered, we look into the theory behind Motivational Interviewing and how we can use it for positive change.
~ Claire Vowell from, What Is Motivational Interviewing? A Theory of Change
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Motivational interviewing is a patient-centered counseling style based on the principles of the humanistic psychology of Carl Rogers. He argued that for a person to âgrow,â we need an environment that provides us with genuine openness that enables self-disclosure, acceptance that includes being seen with unconditional positive regard, and empathy where we feel like we are being listened to and understood.
~ Beata Souders from, 12+ Motivational Interviewing Questions & Techniques
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I’d never heard this form of therapy, described with this specific name. It never ceases to amaze me what I learn when I simply ask someone for feedback after a short conversation. “Have you seen⌔ is true gift.
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Balance
Once we feel like weâre a little good at something, we cling to that. We cling to wanting others to think we know things and are good at things. We cling to the feeling of knowing what weâre doing.
~ Leo Babauta from, Destroy What You Know – Zen Habits Website
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Balancing continuing to work on what I know, and single mindedly focusing on something new, is the challenge I can never seem to resolve. Destroy all the things I know? âŚthat doesn’t end well. Destroy some of the things I know? âŚsure, but which ones.
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Leisure by another name
The more man is alienated from his work, the more he must look elsewhere for sources of growth, mastery, and fulfillment; the more he is alienated from his work, the more critical it becomes for him to cultivate his life outside of it â his leisure.
~ Brett McKay from, Balancing Work and Leisure: Exploring the Pyramid of Leisure | The Art of Manliness
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This is both a brilliant survey of leisure over recent centuries and an insightful suggestion for how anyone might improve their life. Not everyone has time for leisure, but those who do are wise to be intentional about what they do with what time they have. Like many of McKay’s articles, this one goes into the evergreen bookshelves fill by centuries of authors and finds some old gems worth noting.
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In the end
Nine years ago I wrote a journal entry containing this quote:
At the end, when your legs are tired
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and your arms are giving out,
GET ANGRY.
Get angry that you are tired.
THEN HIT IT HARDER.
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Although I still like that quote, I no longer find it inspiring. For me, the time and place for that mindset are behind me. I’m not quitting. Rather, when I get tired and my arms and legs give out, I now think: I misjudged the goal. I can access that other mindset if I choose to go on, but I’m also serenely happy to rest.
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Truth
Many statements which are accepted as truth because they have been passed down to us by tradition look like truth only because we have never tested them, never thought about them in a more precise way.
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Oh crap now I think I have insomnia
My dad used to suffer from insomnia, holding imaginary meetings in his head late into the night. I’m the same way.
~ “AllAmericanBreakfast” from, Mental nonsense: my anti-insomnia trick â LessWrong
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I read that short article and now I think I have insomnia. Sometimes, anyway. Clearly I’m a hypochondriac though. But in all seriousness, the author suggests something thatâdare I say it?âI almost hope I have trouble getting to sleep tonight so I can try it.
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Remember who you are
Every time I left the house, my dad would always say, “Remember who you are.” Now that I am a father, this is a very profound thing to me. At the time I was like, “Dad, what the hell? You’re so weird. Like Im gonna forget who I am? What are you saying?” Now, I’m like, “Gosh, that guy was kind of smart.”
~ Kaskade
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The sands slip through
âCharles blew a little smoke and said, âBuild a thousand and if we canât sell them, we will use them in the store for something,ââ Mr. Roach recalled in remarks to the Fort Worth Executive Round Table last month. âWe were finally able to ship some machines in September and shipped 5,000 that year, all we could assemble,â Mr. Roach said. âOur competitors shipped none.â
~ Sam Roberts from, John Roach, Pioneer of the Personal Computer, Is Dead at 83 – The New York Times
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I had no idea who this person was until I saw this. A TRS-80 (the portable model, called a “4P”, so my computer’s name became “Forpy”) was literally the first in our home. We unpacked it Christmas morning and my father had declined to buy any games (which cost extra) for it. I didn’t even noticeâI programmed the crap out of that thing. First in ASCII graphics, then added a graphics card so it couldâgaspâdraw progressively changing, black-and-white ellipses that looked like othello pieces flipping. I even manually coded the optimal tic-tac-toe algorithm so it could actually play. So, just knowing that one of the people who made that possible, is now gone⌠well, that’s a little sad.
You should go find the TV series Halt and Catch Fire.
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