If youâre regularly having arguments with well-informed people of goodwill, you will probably âloseâ half of themâchanging your mind based on what youâve learned. If youâre not changing your mind, itâs likely youâre not actually having an argument (or youâre hanging out with the wrong people.) While it can be fun to change someone elseâs position, itâs also a gift to learn enough to change ours.
~ Seth Godin from, How to win an argument with a toddler
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It warms my heart whenever anyone describes an argumentâwhat an argument actually is, not rather a fight which too many people refer to as an “argument.”
I’m not the tantrum-throwing child Godin is (among others) referring toâ but too often I can be the next child over in the stereotypical classroom: The petulant one. Yikes!
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