But it was the problem that mattered. It was the customer’s problem that needed fixing, not Charlie’s spiritual state. He took an ordinary thing and elevated it. That’s all. That’s all… In the real world, this is how it’s done.
Suppose I wanted to elevate the art of conversation. What don’t I know about conversations? (That’s not snark, but an actual question for myself.) Who is good at conversations? Who do the masses think is good, and who is objectively good? Actually, what if the art of conversation is just fine— fully elevated so to speak? What if I wanted to elevate others’ conversations to the highest level of the art? How would I do that? Would it be enough to sit in a tower and learn everything there is to know about the art? No, I think I would have to learn as much as possible and go out into the marketplace, (that’s a Diogenes reference,) and have as many conversations as possible. What if I tried to make each conversation intentional— pay attention to it, and try to learn something from each one? What would happen if you intentionally did that thousands of times?
What insights and strategies from personal experiences can enhance podcast creation, audience engagement, and content sharing?
This conversation explores how passion transforms podcasting into a tool for connection and creative expression.
You begin with looking at the podcasts that you do love, listen to, or what is the kind of audio you enjoy consuming. But the next thing you need to do is start defining the difference between: okay I was in love with what it had to say, versus how did it bring me through and get me to understand what it had to say. So you’re looking at the mechanism.
~ Kato McNickle (13:20)
This conversation highlights how personal experiences, particularly in theater and storytelling, shape an individual’s approach to podcasting. Topics discussed include the interplay of soundscapes, rhythm, and emotional resonance in creating a compelling audio experience. Kato shares insights from directing films and plays, connecting those learnings to podcast production.
Another key theme is the importance of championing others and building genuine connections through shared interests. This approach is contrasted with traditional marketing methods, emphasizing the value of interaction and authenticity in promoting podcasts. Practical advice is offered for analyzing and improving podcast structures by examining admired examples and borrowing elements for creative reinterpretation.
Takeaways
Championing others — Sharing others’ work authentically builds credibility and fosters deeper connections.
Analyzing structure — Dissecting and understanding the mechanisms of admired podcasts improves storytelling and technical skills.
Theater and podcasting parallels — Skills in soundscapes, rhythm, and stage presence translate effectively into podcast production.
Emotional resonance — Podcasts benefit from an intentional focus on creating an intimate and emotionally engaging experience for the listener.
Content and connection — Prioritizing why a podcast exists and the connection it creates with listeners outweighs technical perfection.
Resources
Gaping Void — Mentioned as an example of how people share creative social objects to spark conversations.
What role do movement and Parkour play in personal growth and self-discovery?
The journey from childhood play to structured Parkour reveals profound insights into discipline and self-development.
In order to be free, you have to do what you feel is the right thing, not just what you want to do the whole time.
~ Pedro Bessa (21:28)
The conversation examines the transition from casual exploration to structured training in Parkour, highlighting the importance of discipline, values, and self-discovery. Pedro shares how childhood experiences with activities like BMX and skateboarding laid a foundation for Parkour. He emphasizes that movement is not merely about physical achievement but about cultivating a mindset that fosters lifelong exploration and learning.
The discussion touches on coaching and self-training, focusing on the role of community and individual accountability. Pedro reflects on the impact of values like honesty and persistence in self-directed training. Additionally, he discusses how traveling and experiencing new environments and cultures enhances both physical practice and personal growth.
Takeaways
The transition from challenges to training — The evolution of movement from playful challenges to structured Parkour.
The philosophy of exploration — Applying lessons from movement to various areas of life.
The importance of values — How honesty and discipline shape self-coaching and personal growth.
The role of community — How collaborative feedback and shared experiences enhance training.
The impact of travel — How experiencing different cultures and environments fosters unique physical and mental growth.
The magic of shared play — How engaging with others in Parkour creates meaningful connections.
Discipline as freedom — How structured practice enables more profound personal liberation.
Resources
ADAPT Qualifications — The coaching program discussed, emphasizing structure in Parkour training.
Parkour Generations — An organization mentioned as a source of learning and coaching in the discipline.
How can the concept of possibility be explored and applied to creativity, podcasting, and personal growth?
The interplay between flexibility and structure shapes meaningful projects.
What’s the one thing that you can do right now where you are with what you have? Because that you can actually do something about.
~ Nicole Warner (20:06)
The conversation centers on the concept of possibility and its relationship to creativity, podcasting, and personal development. Nicole and Craig discuss the balance between flexibility and structure in creative work, emphasizing the need to embrace uncertainty while maintaining clear boundaries. They highlight how possibilities can inspire growth but also require constraints to channel energy effectively.
Practical strategies such as showing up consistently, imposing restrictions, and focusing on what can be done immediately are explored. The discussion also touches on broader themes, including personal accountability, the human element in creative endeavors, and the risks of over-optimization. Insights are shared about the role of curiosity, boundaries, and intentional action in realizing creative potential.
Takeaways
Creativity and structure — Creativity flourishes when possibilities are shaped by boundaries.
The importance of showing up — Consistent effort is essential for uncovering new opportunities and directions.
Balancing flexibility and planning — Plans serve as starting points, but flexibility is needed to adapt and grow.
Overcoming overwhelm — Restricting possibilities can transform an abundance of ideas into manageable steps.
Actionable possibilities — Progress is made by focusing on what can be done immediately with available resources.
The human element — Removing humanity from processes diminishes creativity and connection.
Saying no — Setting boundaries helps prioritize meaningful projects and avoid dilution.
Simplicity and optimization — Over-optimization can lead to sterility, hindering creativity and growth.
Resources
German with Nicole — Nicole Warner’s platform for teaching German language and culture.
Electric Fetus — A record store in Minneapolis mentioned as a notable location.
Seth Godin’s blog — Referenced in the conversation for insights on creativity and optimization.
How do personal experiences, mindfulness, and language intersect in creating meaningful storytelling and connection through creative projects?
Discovering awe in everyday life transforms ordinary walks into memorable narratives.
I look for moments that are going to make me feel something and I pay attention. So I bring the senses fully— like I’m listening, I’m observing, I’m feeling the temperature of the air. Whatever it is. And then there’s always a moment that I then capture and I write about it.
~ Tania Del Rio (1:43)
The conversation explores how mindfulness and sensory experiences inspire creativity, particularly through the creation of audio stories based on outdoor observations. The process involves engaging deeply with the environment, capturing moments of awe, and translating them into concise, impactful narratives. This practice has not only enhanced the creator’s appreciation of Paris but also fostered a unique way to connect with others.
Language also plays a pivotal role, influencing the pace and nature of creative expression. Discussing the challenges and rewards of teaching and creating in multiple languages highlights how language affects cognition and communication. The conversation reflects on the value of practice and patience in mastering new skills, whether it’s writing, recording, or engaging with a different culture.
Takeaways
Creating meaningful stories — Immersing oneself in sensory experiences can lead to authentic and compelling storytelling.
Language and creativity — Operating in different languages impacts the way ideas are formed and communicated.
The importance of practice — Developing habits, like daily recording, strengthens creative muscles and fosters consistency.
Mindful observation — Paying close attention to details in nature or urban settings enhances appreciation and presence.
Challenges of teaching — Adapting to teach in another language requires patience and perseverance but can open new opportunities.
Cultural connection — Learning a local language enriches cultural experiences and builds stronger connections.
Remember that anything really worth doing is probably hard work, and will absolutely require you to do things you don’t currently do, which will feel uncomfortable for a while. This is a “hard truth” we must all face. If it was easy, everyone would already be doing it.
Somewhere along the way, I learned to like vegetables. I mean, really like vegetables. I know you think I said, “give me a lot of vegetables,” but what I actually said was, “give me all the vegetables.” Brussel Sprouts? Do you remember when they used to be bitter? …because, yes, they really did breed them differently in recent decades to be less bitter. Artichoke—not just the hearts, but the whole thing… yes, I know how to make them, and keep your hands out of the way when I eat them. But a good one is hard to find these days as they’ve been bred to be more “palatable.” Peppers, yes of all sorts. Tomatos, I ate them all. Beans, kale, spinach, turnips, cucumbers… steamed, raw, tossed as summer salad (aka, with EVO and red wine vinegar)… nom nom nom nom.
A little over a year ago, I settled on my personal mission: Creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. To make progress on that, I need to eat my vegetables. And—as discussed—I love me some vegetables. I’m currently, slowly working on adjusting my life to be focused on two things: Recording kewl conversations with people, and writing; writing about those kewl conversations. It’s not that I currently have responsibilities to eschew, but rather there are still too many off-focus things I do which I’m working to eliminate.
Neither our economy nor the demands of a life well-lived dictate that everyone should aspire to be sitting alone at a desk in rural Narashino, crafting literature to the light of the rising sun. My growing concern, however, is that such real commitment to thought has become too rare.
I’ve read every post on Newport’s blog. I have both Deep Work and So Good They Can’t Ignore You, and Digital Minimalism is in my “priority” subset of my wishlist of books. (Yes, I am aware that I have problems.) But I’ll out myself: I’ve not read either of the two Newport books that I already have, and see no point brining the third into the mix until I do. But whining about my privileged-problem of having too many books, isn’t my theme here. Rather, I want to think about why is it “that such real commitment to thought has become too rare.” Because I totally agree that such is so.
(That’s all. I’m thinking about it, and now so are you.)
I often wish that I could just post a link with my scratch notes; if I did, this post would have been up two hours ago. But you come here to read full sentences, so it is the least I can provide. However, it is not that simple: while I am certainly not famous, I am lucky to have an audience. It is important for me to remember that I cannot write solely for myself, since other people might read it. No matter whether it is a longer article or just a quick link, I don’t want to further the spread of something that I believe to be false or unhelpful.
For me, the purpose of writing for my blog is to help me clarify my thinking; It’s a big part of my ongoing process of reflection. That said, I’m well aware that others are reading, and whenever possible I would like what I write to also be helpful to my readers. At the very least, I’d like it to not be unhelpful.
I’m pragmatic. I’ve had that hurled at me as a criticism on more than one occasion. But—hey, pragmatism—it’s important to understand why someone is being pragmatic. I’m pragmatic because I want to be understood, and I want to understand others. That’s as opposed to being pragmatic as a defensive maneuver. To be fair—look, more pragmatism—I enjoy deploying pragmatism for humor, but I’d like to think it’s self-evident when I do so.
Take for example the common adage, “You get what you pay for.” It’s understood that it’s not literally true in all cases; one can get swindled by an unscrupulous seller, but that’s not the point of the adage. The point, obviously, is that if you’re a cheap-skate and try to save too much, you end up getting crap. The pragmatist in me loves to point out that we can fix that adage so that it is literally true always, and makes clear the point. A more convoluted grammar serves better, “You don’t get what you don’t pay for.”
That’s my go-to explanation for pragmatism. Which of those versions is better? The first has simplicity and clarity, but it buries the lead and requires actual thought to get at the kernel of wisdom. The second puts the wisdom on the surface; but it’s a convoluted double-negative that makes one sound like a grammarian.
…at which point whomever I’m discussing pragmatism with is starting into the deep end of the thinking pool, and I point out: Bingo. The specific answer in this discussion doesn’t matter. You’ve now been, at least briefly in this dicussion, a pragmatist. Don’t we now understand each other better?
How does podcasting serve as a platform to connect deeply with people and uncover their unique stories?
Unearthing extraordinary personal tales through the lens of community and endurance.
She does 10 Ironman [races] in ten days, a little crazy… and I said to her: Look some people go to work from 9 to 5. You’re basically doing an Ironman from 9 to 5. And she’s like: Yeah, you get it.
~ Susanne Mueller (17:28)
The conversation explores the intersection of running and podcasting as ways to connect with people and share compelling stories. It begins by examining how shared activities like running foster community, especially during challenging times. Susanne highlights how training in groups and braving harsh conditions cultivates bonds that transcend the sport itself. This shared resilience is paralleled in podcasting, where personal stories are unearthed, often revealing unexpected insights about people’s lives and journeys.
The discussion also emphasizes the role of storytelling in podcasting, focusing on how unique questions can draw out previously untold stories. Susanne shares anecdotes about interviewing runners and other guests, noting that people often reveal personal details not usually shared in formal or public settings. The power of podcasting lies in its ability to humanize individuals, even those perceived as highly accomplished, and to create moments of genuine connection and surprise.
Takeaways
Podcasting as a tool — It serves as a platform to connect deeply with others and share impactful stories.
Running and community — Shared endurance activities create strong, lasting bonds among participants.
Personal storytelling — Uncovering unexpected and deeply personal anecdotes through thoughtful questions.
Language and expression — The importance of being concise and clear as a podcaster.
Humanizing the accomplished — Podcasting reveals the relatable, everyday aspects of even the most accomplished individuals.
Unique interview styles — Asking unconventional questions can lead to remarkable moments of insight.
Digital gardening is the work we do to make an organic mess less messy and more useful. It’s certainly not a new idea but I think it’s something that is becoming a major problem for may digital spelunkers. We’ve never had a greater variety of information inboxes and it has never been easier to capture new information into these boxes. The problem now is with recalling the information and making connections between it all.
Weatherhead goes on to list several specific problems, but not much in the way of solutions. And that’s perfectly fine; Having a clearly defined problem, (or two, or three,) demonstrates a lot of thinking and a lot of hard work has been done in search of a solution. We even have an adage for that: A problem well-defined is half-solved. He mentions in passing that a lot of his bookmarking, (saving, marking for later reading, staring, adding to lists, etc.,) is done as an aspiration. Becoming aware of this was a key turning point for me.
At some point, someone will carry the last of my worldly possessions… and deposit them in a dumpster. At some point, all of my digital files will be given a shrug and summarily deleted. I currently aspire to stop collecting things “for later” and instead use, read, compose, share, create and inspire now.
A shout-out to Alice who joins us this week. Welcome! :)
The front of my blog includes a random selection of testimonial quotes from readers of this email. It would be helpful if you’d hit reply and write something I could add to those testimonials.
Also, I’ve made a small addition to also show the tags for each of these items. After 10 years and 3,000+ posts, all my tagging along the way has proved well worth the time. If you’re curious, I have two pages for tags; One is an insane “all the tags” page, (there are 1,326 unique tags on my blog,) and the other is a more useful page of “tags with 10+ posts.The latter runs to about 100 tags and is an insightful glimpse into the sorts of things which interest me.
What inspires and sustains someone working behind the scenes in podcast production?
This conversation uncovers the struggles and joys of producing creative podcasts with purpose.
The team that I’m working with needs to be cool and needs to be on the same vibe as me, you know? It’s just not worth it to me, at this point, to be forcing myself into a box to work on a certain team.
~ Alexandra DiPalma (3:31)
This conversation explores the personal and professional challenges of working in podcast production. Topics include maintaining inspiration despite the workload, the importance of selecting projects that align with personal values, and the satisfaction of empowering underrepresented voices in the podcasting industry. Insights are shared about prioritizing teamwork and avoiding projects that lack alignment with one’s instincts or mission.
The discussion also touches on collaboration, emphasizing the value of working with peers at similar levels of experience. Alex reflects on how her perspective has shifted over the years, balancing passion with pragmatism, and remaining open to meaningful projects that may not offer immediate financial rewards. The metaphor of an upward spiral is used to illustrate growth and self-awareness, reinforcing themes of connection and the power of thoughtful framing.
Takeaways
Working behind the scenes — Challenges and rewards of producing podcasts as a creative process are explored.
Selecting the right projects — Importance of aligning with a project’s mission and trusting instincts to avoid pitfalls.
Empowering underrepresented voices — Focus on including diverse perspectives both on mic and in production roles.
Collaboration as a strategy — Value of working with peers at similar career stages for mutual growth.
Balancing passion and pragmatism — Navigating personal inspiration while maintaining professional sustainability.
Resources
Domino Sound — A podcast production company focused on amplifying underrepresented voices.
Food for Thought — A podcast hosted by queer, multiracial writers, produced by Domino Sound.
Zen Habits — Blog by Leo Babauta, referenced for the metaphor of the upward spiral of self-awareness.
Tim Ferriss Blog — Mentioned as the source of the “superpower” framing technique in the conversation.
What is the unique power of sound as a medium to connect with others and foster understanding?
The essence of podcasting lies in its ability to preserve authenticity and humanity.
I’ve gone through a career as an architect and as a builder, and acoustics are often overlooked […] I always have this dream of building the perfect bar, or the perfect restaurant, because I think the acoustics in those spaces are more important than anything else. That ability to be with somebody, but be in public, and acoustics can influence that dramatically— or make it a horrible experience.
~ Fred Martin Gutierrez (17:16)
The conversation begins with reflections on the unique emotional resonance of sound, emphasizing how podcasting enables connection through its focus on auditory experience. Sound’s unedited authenticity, as seen in music and live conversations, is contrasted with the more curated nature of other mediums. The importance of pauses and space in fostering deeper thought and connection is highlighted, both in podcasting and in writing.
The discussion transitions into technical aspects, such as the role of acoustics in spaces like bars and restaurants, where it can enhance or detract from experiences. The conversation also touches on podcasting as a tool for self-discovery and reflection, particularly during midlife, revealing how it offers an avenue for learning and personal growth. Finally, the talk explores the human connection fostered by shared experiences, whether through podcasts, music, or even reaction videos.
Takeaways
Sound as a medium — It fosters emotional resonance and provides unique space for thought.
Authenticity in podcasting — Unedited content often delivers deeper connections and richer experiences.
Acoustics in architecture — Thoughtful sound design transforms spaces and interpersonal dynamics.
Podcasting as self-reflection — It serves as a medium for learning and personal growth, especially in transitional life phases.
Human connection — Shared experiences, even through digital formats, reveal universal aspects of empathy and compassion.
The process of creation — Crafting high-quality audio requires deliberate effort and iterative refinement.
Inspired by a reader’s question to me, I thought I’d ask our followers on Facebook and Twitter for an answer to the question: What books would you recommend someone read to improve their general knowledge of the world.
I must say the number and quality of the responses overwhelmed me. The box Amazon just delivered reminds me that I ordered 9 books off this list.
I know there are too many books—old books, new books, red books, blue books … A friend of mine just published a book, Before You Say Anything, and Jiminy Cricket I’d love to read it— I hovered on the add-to-cart button. But I paused, managing to trigger my habit-change “wedge” of repeating: “simplfiy. simplify. simplify.” I digress.
I skimmed that list of books from Parrish and felt I should probably read every one of them. Instead—simplify. simplify. simplify.—I noted I’ve read several, have several more already in my possession, and several others on the wishlist. With a life-is-short shrug, I’m passing it along to you and moving on with my morning.
How can creative collaborations, like podcasting and music installations, drive personal growth, enhance understanding of one’s craft, and foster connections with an audience?
The challenges and rewards of collaborative artistry illuminate surprising pathways to personal development.
I would never have the courage to say things which I have the courage to say when I’m with Anna. Somehow the conversation just flows, and we actually discovered new levels of philosophy or whatever. We become courageous together much more than when we are alone.
~ Monika Manauskaite (15:00)
The conversation centers on the creative journeys of two classical musicians who use innovative projects, like podcasts and music installations, to explore self-discovery and audience engagement. Anna and Monika discuss how engaging with podcasting and vlogging has shifted their mindsets, exposing them to diverse perspectives and helping them grow personally and professionally. Their experiences reveal how artistic collaboration fosters mutual courage and enhances creative outputs, as seen in their ability to explore and express new ideas together.
I realized how much I’m learning. You know, after a few months I realized I’m exposed to so many different worldviews and so many different aspects of people’s lives, and I just felt, you know, a big improvement in my mindset in everyday life.
~ Anna Szalucka (2:15)
Monika and Anna highlight their music installation project, emphasizing its impact on their understanding of their audience. The project challenged stereotypes about young people’s disinterest in classical music, revealing instead a significant curiosity when accessibility barriers are removed. They also reflect on the role of collaboration in combating self-doubt, leveraging shared passion to overcome imposter syndrome and take bold creative steps.
Takeaways
Collaboration in artistry — Discusses how working with others amplifies creativity, courage, and productivity.
Audience engagement in classical music — Highlights how accessibility can attract younger audiences to classical performances.
Self-discovery through creative work — Explores how podcasting and vlogging can reveal personal insights and deepen one’s connection to their craft.
The role of mindset — Examines how adopting a collaborative or experimental mindset can drive innovation in creative projects.
Flow state in performance — Describes the unique dynamics of achieving flow during solo versus collaborative performances.
Combatting imposter syndrome — Emphasizes the value of shared passion in overcoming self-doubt and achieving personal growth.
Innovative concert formats — Presents the idea of interactive music installations as a reimagined classical concert experience.
How does podcasting foster personal growth, learning, and connection?
Compassion and empathy emerge as essential skills in podcasting and beyond.
I believe by making the show, you are really expanding. I’m expanding my consciousness.
~ Özlem Özkan (19:41)
The conversation centers on podcasting as a tool for exploration, learning, and connection. One of the key themes discussed is the value of preparation in podcasting. Özlem emphasizes the importance of deeply researching and understanding her guests to create meaningful conversations. This preparation leads to authentic exchanges, which highlight the importance of honesty and openness in both podcasting and life.
Another significant theme is the role of empathy and compassion in fostering authentic connections. The discussion touches on the challenges of being a guest or host and how people often strive for perfection, which can undermine their authenticity. Podcasting, Özlem notes, has helped her practice being themselves in various settings, whether in relationships, professional interactions, or creative pursuits. The conversation also examines how listening attentively allows for deeper understanding and helps create safe spaces where genuine connections flourish.
Takeaways
Podcasting as a learning tool — Emphasized as a method for both hosts and guests to grow and gain new perspectives.
Importance of preparation — Thorough preparation allows for better conversations and helps guests feel valued.
Authenticity in podcasting — Discussed as critical for creating meaningful and memorable episodes.
The role of empathy — Highlighted as essential for connecting with guests and understanding their perspectives.
Practical strategies for hosting — Includes pre-recording rituals like music to create a relaxed and open atmosphere.
Challenges of being a guest — Addressed how striving too hard to perform well can lead to inauthenticity.
Listening as a skill — Listening attentively is portrayed as key to expanding understanding and fostering connection.
Podcasting as life practice — Lessons learned from podcasting extend into personal growth and daily interactions.
Resources
The Bridging Podcast — Özlem’s podcast aimed at connecting people and exploring human stories.
How does a supportive community influence the success and motivation of podcasters?
Shared experiences and mutual encouragement shape the journey of podcasting beginners.
The magic of sound comes through… it surprises you every time.
~ Bryon Howard (9:55)
The conversation highlights the impact of community in the podcasting journey, focusing on how collaboration and mutual encouragement help creators persevere through challenges. Bryon and Craig discuss the importance of connections formed during a podcasting workshop, noting how these relationships motivated them to continue their work despite initial uncertainties. Bryon reflects on how a few key individuals in his network were instrumental in his success.
Bryon also examine the technical and emotional aspects of podcasting. The discussion includes overcoming imposter syndrome through listener feedback, practical tips for in-person and virtual recording sessions, and the value of genuine interactions. Bryon explores how podcasting, even as a hobby, can provide meaningful personal and professional growth.
Takeaways
Community as a motivator — The support and warmth of a like-minded group play a significant role in sustaining podcasters’ efforts.
Importance of listener feedback — Positive feedback, even when sparse, can validate efforts and inspire continued work.
Recording in-person vs. virtual — In-person recordings enhance shared experiences and natural timing, creating a richer connection.
Balancing passion and practicality — Podcasting can be pursued as both a hobby and a professional tool, with room for curiosity and personal interests.
Managing challenges rationally — Rational approaches to logistical and health concerns, such as in-person recording during a pandemic, ensure smooth execution.
A highly influential book for me in designing Automattic was Daniel Pink’s Drive, where he eloquently introduces the three things that really matter in motivating people: mastery, purpose, and autonomy. Mastery is the urge to get better skills. Purpose is the desire to do something that has meaning, that’s bigger than yourself. These first two principles physically co-located companies can be great at. But the third, autonomy, is where even the best in-office company can never match a Level 4 or above distributed company.
I’ve read and listened to a bunch of stuff from Mullenweg and he’s consistently someone with his head on straight and his priorities—particularly those related to the many people working for his company—in order. If you just went, “Matt who?” definitely read that little post, and then, perhaps, dip into his podcast, Distributed. (Maybe try the episode, Automattic CEO Matt Mullenweg on building a fully distributed company, to get a good taste.)
The great biographer Robert Caro once said, “Power doesn’t always corrupt, but power always reveals.” Perhaps the same is true of the most powerful networks in human history.
Social media has not corrupted us, it’s merely revealed who we always were.
There’s a lot of good—writing, concepts, anecdote, data—in this article. But the thing that leapt out at me was something I’d already known, but seem to have forgotten… or, if not fully forgotten, I’d failed to connect it to other things in my model of the world: The idea of the silent majority.
About 90% of the people participating on social networks, are not even participating. They’re simply observing. It turns out that the other 10% are the people with extreme views; not “blow stuff up” extreme, but simply more towards the opposing ends of whatever spectrum of views you care to consider.
Two things to consider: First, boy howdy guilty as charged! I’m on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn— but the only content I post is related to my projects. I don’t engage with anything, reshare… or even, really, participate unless it’s related to a project. *face palm* Woa! I’m literally a member of the silent majority. Perhaps you are to? If 10 of you are reading, then 9 of you are just like me.
Second, because math! If you look at the stream we all like to say, “it’s endless!” Right. There must be thousands of posts, right? I’ll pause while you do math… right. If there are only thousands of posts for me to see, I’m clearly not seeing all the activity from the millions of people. Sure, some of that is the platform filtering, but I have the feeling that the numbers hold true: If everyone posted a lot we’d have thousands of times more stuff flying around.
I believe the standard how-to book contains too much new stuff for a human brain to take on board once, or at least it does for my brain. Implementing a single habit – flossing before bed, for example – is something most people can do if they’re really focusing on it, but even that is hard. Converting your workday into the full-bore Pomodoro system, or (God help you) the GTD system, represents a dozen or more habits that all have to come online more or less at the same time.
This is an unusual post from Cain. It is very much nuts-and-bolts material—ending in a pitch for a book of his own—rather than his usual philosophical pontifications. To his observation quoted above I’d like to add the following: If I am able to find just one good idea in a book which I can implement, then I get very excited.
For example, one can read many books and come away with new ideas. (Man’s Search for Meaning, or Leaves of Grass, spring to mind as examples.) But the vast majority of books do not contain actionable things that can be implemented to make a difference in your life. An idea like, “be the change you want to see in the world,” is sublime. But how—be specific in your thinking here—do I do that? There are many examples: “Practice gratitude.” How, exactly? And compare that to the same idea, in actionable form: “Begin each day by writing down three things for which you are grateful.”
I’m not trying to denigrate great ideas. I’m trying to explain my sheer delight when I do find a great idea which is readily attemptable. Many of those actionable ideas still fall by the wayside, but a few of them have really stuck and served me well.