My own

Not to support this side or that in chariot-racing, this fighter or that in the games. To put up with discomfort and not make demands. To do my own work, mind my own business, and have no time for slanderers.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a652. — slipbox


Mind your own

Not to support this side or that in chariot-racing, this fighter or that in the games. To put up with discomfort and not make demands. To do my own work, mind my own business, and have no time for slanderers.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a652. — slipbox

I recently had a run-in— well, to be accurate, I drove off the road… But I’ll call it a “run-in” with reality. (No injuries, no serious damage, just a bit of unexpected adventure in what should have been a boring car ride.)

First, as I touch-typed that previous sentence, I ended that parenthetical note by typing, “…a boring car die.)” If that’s not a Freudian slip, (where you mean one thing but say your mother,) I don’t know what it is. I stared at it for a moment and then corrected it, as it now appears above. Driving off the road didn’t scare me, but it has clearly been rattling around my thoughts recently.

Second, after more thought in the days after: Yeah, I’m ok with what I’m up to these days. Doing my own work. Working on minding my own business. Not making demands. Putting up with discomfort. …and that last one is not a passive-aggressive, “that’s ok I’ll just sit here in the dark.” (How many grandmothers does it take to change a light bulb? in case you didn’t catch that.) I mean simply putting up with discomfort; it’s hot, I’m sweaty and the gnats are annoying, sort of discomfort.

Anyway, I’ve just added this wonderful reminder from Aurelius to my collection of daily reflection prompts. There were 57, and now there are 58. It also becomes quote number 652 in my growing collection. If you’re curious about how these posts are created, it’s a mixture of scheduled posts and daily writing. Instead of scheduling this one out somewhere in the future—which does have the advantage of surprising me when they do pop out… Instead, I’m opting to drop it here to give me some room for more thoughts.

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Your own mind

Remember that to change your mind and to accept correction are free acts too. The action is yours; based on your own will, your own decision—and your own mind.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a515. — slipbox


Choose today

Stick to what’s in front of you—idea, action, utterance. This is what you deserve. You could be good today. But instead you choose tomorrow.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a488. — slipbox


Fundamentally

What is this, fundamentally? What is its nature and substance, its reason for being? What is it doing in the world? How long is it here for?

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a518. — slipbox


Complaining

Don’t be overheard complaining about life at court. Not even to yourself.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a521. — slipbox


Perfection of character

Perfection of character: To live your last day, every day, without frenzy, or sloth, or pretense.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a536. — slipbox


Right or wrong

Then the only proper response for me to make is this: You are much mistaken, my friend, if you think that any man worth his salt cares about the risk of death and doesn’t concentrate on this alone: whether what he’s doing is right or wrong, and his behavior a good man’s or a bad one’s.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a560. — slipbox


Thoughts like this

To watch the courses of the stars as if you revolved with them. To keep constantly in mind how the elements alter into one another. Thoughts like this wash off the mud of life below.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a289. — slipbox


Each existing only briefly

Nature takes substance and makes a horse. Like a sculpture with wax. And then melts it down and uses the material for a tree. Then for a person. Then for something else. Each existing only briefly. It does the container no harm to be put together, and none to be taken apart.

~ Marcus Aurelius

Elsewhere, this is 4a572. — slipbox