Real change

Change—real change—comes from the inside out. It doesn’t come from hacking at the leaves of attitude and behavior with quickfix personality ethic techniques. It comes from striking at the root—the fabric of our thought, the fundamental, essential paradigms, which give definition to our character and create the lens through which we see the world.

~ Stephen Covey

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Virtue

The simplest, quickest and surest means to becoming known as a virtuous person is to work on yourself, to actually be virtuous. Examine each virtue, and you will see that they all were achieved with work and exercise.

~ Socrates

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Drawbacks

The very shortcomings which make others difficult and unbearable mean less in yourself. You do not see them, and when you speak of other people having these drawback, you do not notice that you are describing yourself.

~ Jean de la Bruyère

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Dreams

It is so much simpler to bury reality than it is to dispose of dreams.

~ Don DeLillo

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Options

Wealth is not about having a lot of money; It’s about having a lot of options.

~ Chris Rock

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Mistakes

Do not be embarrassed by your mistakes. Nothing can teach us better than our understanding of them. This is one of the best ways of self-education.

~ Thomas Carlyle

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In the bricks

The philosopher believes that the value of his philosophy lies in the whole, in the building: Posterity discovers it in the bricks with which he built and which are then often used again for better building.

~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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Self-reliant

Being self-reliant is critical. To make yourself less dependent on others and so-called experts, you need to expand your repertoire of skills. And you need to feel more confident in your own judgement. Understand: We tend to overestimate other people’s abilities—after all, they’re trying hard to make it look as if they knew what they were doing—and we tend to underestimate our own. You must compensate for this by trusting yourself more and others less.

~ Robert Greene

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Clever

If you want to be a clever person, you have to learn how to ask cleverly, how to listen attentively, how to respond quietly, and how to stop talking when there is nothing more to say.

~ Leo Tolstoy

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Foreign currency

Advice is like being handed a large amount of foreign currency. What do you do with it?

~ Rhik Samadder

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