What role does intentionality play in effective communication and personal growth?
Although she is officially an ‘expert’ in communication, Angie Flynn-McIver simply considers herself constantly fascinated by it. Angie Flynn-McIver discusses intention; What it is, coaching it, and practicing it. She shares her own stories of intention, coaching, and travel, and gives advice on finding your guiding stars. Angie unpacks her thoughts on the power of storytelling and how to use your intention to chart your course.
The answer to all of that is intention. The answer to all of that is actually you have to do some really deep personal work to figure out where you’re coming from and what motivates you.
~ Angie Flynn-McIver (12:54)
Angie Flynn-McIver is a communication expert, theater director, and business woman based in North Carolina. As the founder of Ignite CSP, she uses her theater experience to coach others in effective and intentional communication. Angie and her husband are also the founders of the North Carolina Stage Company, an award winning theater in it’s 19th season.
The conversation explores how intentionality shapes communication and personal growth, particularly in coaching and storytelling. It begins by examining the concept of deliberate versus default intentions, explaining how our unexamined patterns often drive behavior and how adopting deliberate intentions fosters meaningful interactions. Insights are shared about how actors use intention to create authenticity, with parallels drawn to everyday communication challenges.
Another focal point is the role of storytelling as both a coaching tool and a human experience. Stories connect intention to outcomes, providing a narrative framework for understanding and navigating life. Practical advice is offered, such as practicing intention in mundane settings like grocery stores to build self-awareness. The conversation highlights the importance of narrative, not just as an enhancer of coaching but as a foundational tool for aligning actions with goals.
Takeaways
Storytelling as a tool — It connects deeply with human cognition and emotions, making it an effective coaching method.
Default versus deliberate intention — Identifying and shifting from default patterns can transform communication and actions.
Practical application of intention — Small everyday tasks, like grocery shopping, serve as effective practice grounds for cultivating deliberate intention.
Intention in coaching — Coaches use intention to help clients align actions with larger goals while addressing immediate needs.
Empathy through communication — Building understanding and connection requires intention to be present and aware in every interaction.
Resources
Ignite CSP — Angie’s coaching company focusing on intentional communication and leadership.
North Carolina Stage Company — A theater co-founded by Angie, showcasing innovative performances.
David Cain’s Raptitude — Blog offering reflective essays, including “How to Walk Across a Parking Lot,” on intentional living.
The Storytelling Animal — Jonathan Gottschall’s book exploring the science and power of storytelling in human life.
(Written with help from Chat-GPT.)
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