https://www.brainpickings.org/2018/09/03/rilke-love-marriage/
They who wanted to do each other good are now handling one another in an imperious and intolerant manner, and in the struggle somehow to get out of their untenable and unbearable state of confusion, they commit the greatest fault that can happen to human relationships: they become impatient.
Guilty as charged, Your Honor.
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